Just a thought, I have been learning, thinking, and re-evaluating some things lately(This is one of them):

"Most of the love notes and messages we write online for our loved(related & unrelated) ones, shouldn't they be sent privately to them?  I mean, you have never told your husband you loved him face to face, but on social media you post it. And he secretly longs for you to tell him face to face.  I have this feeling that the reason MOST people do that is so the public can see you are in love, lol. Same thing with birthdays. If I have already called the person or sms/WhatsApp the person, why should I post again? You see my point? Anyway, please ride on if it makes you feel "happy"". But if it's for public attention, you have missed the true meaning of love, romance and Intimacy." - Iro