Be #Useful:

I feel it's nice to go a place where you feel more useful. You can feel valued in a place or feel like a "trophy", but our purpose here on earth is to be useful. However, it all depends on your view about life. In medicine, if you don't use a part of a body for a long time, it will start dying; ironically, it's also called "atrophy" in the medical field. In marriage, don't just be a trophy wife, there should be something you are contributing or else you are a liability. See my point? If you don't, then this post is not for you.

- Iro

For There Is Now No Condemnation To Them Who Are In Christ Jesus:

"Let's make sure our "gospel" message is not built on condemnation alone. This is for people who over preach the physical purity more than righteousness & Salvation.  When you over preach virginity, it makes rape victims and Mary Magdalenes of today begin to feel that they are criminals too. Also, there are some virgins practicing lesbianism and masturbation. If you spend so much time on the virginity message, what time do you teach them to begin to prepare for marriage and teaching her the benefits of sex for her future husband?  Most women continue practicing virginity even when they get married. They don't even have pleasure to please their husbands. So, be careful. Be led by the Holy Spirit." - Iro

Before Marriage, Jacob Was A Good Cook, Rachel Was A Shepherdess:

"But wait a minute, GIRL means young female child. Why do some people still say "girl-child"?  Like touch screen phone is screen touch? Lol, everything being said without thinking it through or said backwards or with too much emphasis. Anyway, happy international day of the girl. To me, boy or girl, no difference. Just raise them up to respect each other and value each other's strong points. Teach the girls how to change a flat tire and teach the boys how to cook. Let the boys play with dolls so they will be good fathers and let the girls learn how to wrestle so they can defend themselves when attacked. Then there will be no need to preach too much about the GIRL. Above all, educate and raise them up in the fear of the Lord." - Iro

Just a thought, I have been learning, thinking, and re-evaluating some things lately(This is one of them):

"Most of the love notes and messages we write online for our loved(related & unrelated) ones, shouldn't they be sent privately to them?  I mean, you have never told your husband you loved him face to face, but on social media you post it. And he secretly longs for you to tell him face to face.  I have this feeling that the reason MOST people do that is so the public can see you are in love, lol. Same thing with birthdays. If I have already called the person or sms/WhatsApp the person, why should I post again? You see my point? Anyway, please ride on if it makes you feel "happy"". But if it's for public attention, you have missed the true meaning of love, romance and Intimacy." - Iro